By D8 Knighter

Dating can be challenging, especially when entering as a new decade. The new decade comes with a new set of formalities that need to be learned. Maybe you thought you had won it in your 20s, sadly once you begin your 30s, and it gets more challenging. Frankly and overwhelming, the two decades are quite different; for instance, the playing ground is reduced.

In the 30s, you might have developed some trust issues due to constantly being heartbroken. It is also the time when you might be devoted to your career. To sum it all, most of your close association might be off the market, unlike in your 20s.

Despite all that, whether you become single recently or just begun your 3rd decade and having trouble dating, don't worry. We have put down some key tips to help you survive and date successfully in your 30s.

  Never mind about your age

 Age is just a number that doesn't matter that much.  Never be so quick to judge someone because of age. Two people come together to make a relationship work because they are in love. They grow fond of each other, begin supporting each other and enjoy spending time together. This is not because of the age difference.

Age difference has a minimal impact; what is key is physical attraction and compatibility.

 What do you need? 

You might not have given it a thought; in your 20s, you had fantasies of a financially stable partner, drives a fancy car and can afford to take you to a fancy restaurant. However, in your 30s, you will probably notice all fancy things might not be your desires. You need more. 

Take time to figure out what is right for you. Find common descriptors that you liked from your previous partners. The top chosen qualities from your previous partners are likely to be your top desires in your next relationship

 Move on

At the age of 30, you are likely to have been in several relationships. You might have encountered heartbreaks, ghostia, cheating, or breakups. You must let go of your past. 

It is not important to discuss your previous relationship with your new catch. It is time to focus on the future, but first, you have to let go of your past.

 Be courageous

Having attempted many relationships unsuccessfully, it is likely that you will develop a natural defense mechanism. You are likely to fear letting people into your life. Fear of being heartbroken. 

Despite all the ups and downs,  you have let people into your life.  To find love, you have to be courageous. Don't feel vulnerable; promise yourself you will be fine.

 Focus on having fun

At the age of 30, likely, you have not achieved your targets. Maybe you don't have a kid, are not married yet, and are still single. If you focus on all these things, you will end up being stressed. 

The main focus in your 30s should be meeting your perfect match. Forget about things you don't have yet. There is no point in being in any relationship if you are not happy or not having fun. All relationships should bring you joy, laughter, and love, no matter the age. 

 Communication is key

Proper communication is the foundation of any kind of relationship. Dating in your 30s, you should be able to open up and be honest with each other. Have a candid conversation.

Just like dating in your 20s, you are likely to encounter some fights. Be mature enough; solve your issues maturely through dialogue. If there is a communication breakdown, that relationship is as good as dead.

  Don't waste time on somebody you don't like - At All!

There is no need to keep talking to someone you don't like. You might be wasting so much time texting and Hanging with somebody you are not going to date.  

Know your value and priorities. If he doesn't fit in, then politely let him know. Make tough decisions to save your time and focus on something more important.

  Be real

Be yourself, don't portray or pretend to be somebody else. Always be open about your likes and dislikes. Never give up fundamental things to make someone happy. 

It is very attractive to be yourself. Owning who you are. Be comfortable in your skin.

            Conclusion  

Hopefully, the tips will be in your navigation in the new decade. Remember always to settle when you are sure he perfectly fits into your shoes. In other words, never settle for less.