By D8 Knighter

Falling in love is almost as magical as it can be. You absolutely adore that person, and once you spend a long time together, you tend to see the future with them.

It is a wonderful feeling, but it all comes crashing down when you break up. It hurts like hell, and you get shattered to the bone. Every time you think to yourself about where you went wrong.

But there are ways you can detect that you are leading towards a breakup. It may hurt, but they can surely help you in accepting it.

They Tend To Share Less

Does your conversation feel distant, and you see no effort from the other person? Of course, there are times when a person doesn’t feel like sharing.

But when that time extends over days and months, it is definitely a red flag, and you should note that down for yourself. No matter what you do and no matter how hard you try, the conversation is dead.

As much as heartbreaking it is, you will have to accept it.

The Use Of “I” instead Of “We.”

Remember the time when they used to talk about being together and doing everything together?

Pay attention to their words and how they are saying them. They will stop using the words “Us, We, Our” and use more “I, Me, and Mine.” This indicates that they are not trying to refer you to develop the habit of not including you in their conversation.

You might not notice this behavior at first, but once you do, all the puzzle pieces come together and start to makes sense.

They Avoid Talking About The Future

What is a relationship if you do not hope to live together forever? Falling in love means finding your soulmate, your partner, and your companion through thick and thin.

It goes both ways. But if it becomes lopsided, that is where the problems start. When your partner avoids talking about the future or asks you to change the topic, it means that they do not see you as a part of their future.

Each Conversation Leads To A Fight

It is not unusual for couples to fight, and indeed, it is a normal part of a relationship. But that fighting should not be prolonged and would not be after every conversation.

You talk to them with love and patience. Every time you want to work things out and discuss the things to resolve them, they steer away or fight in response to avoid the topic. That is when you know things are getting worse.

You Stop Making Plans

What about the amusement park you wanted to go to this weekend? What about the trip you decided to go on a few months back? This all fades away, and you are left with nothing!

When your conversation involves mere words and not plans for activities together, it means that the love that was once there is no more, sadly.

I know it will hurt, and it will be devastating. But better safe than sorry and better vigilant than surprised.